Just because someone types words on a PUBLIC web site, do not assume that you know the person. Yes, I blog about general personal things, but I rarely ever blog publicly about personal things that mean a lot to me. Yes, I talk about my mom. I talk about her, because sometimes my feelings about her illness become too heavy and I need to release that. Also, because a few of my family members as well as friends do read my site and I appreciate the prayers sent her way. You probably also know that I have a Goddaughter. I have mentioned her, but it ends there. I don’t, however, go on in my blog about my close friends or the person that I’m in love with, because I don’t see the point. Beyond stating that I’m in love, and not available, I see no point. Apparently though, to people who don’t know me, beyond the text on this page, that’s wrong. Huh? What? Please.

I had a personal site in the past while I was in a relationship and I blogged about everything. From private stuff to dumb stuff. And that was all good. But I learned something fast. If you’re happy, people can’t stand that. Especially if they’re not. Every time I turned around, I had someone new bringing opposition into my life. I had a few fake friends try to come between him and I as well as threaten to do and say things purely out of spite. Fortunately, he wasn’t a weak minded individual who believed others over me, so they never became an issue for US.

That was a learning experience. And from that moment on, I vowed never to expose my relationships (best friends/lovers) to the cuntiness of fake females and males ever again. So I became guarded. I believe if you love something, you keep it close. It shouldn’t matter what people who don’t know you two personally think of you. After all, mentioning that you’re in a relationship should be enough. If you’re with a person and public validation on a web site means more to them than what you two share in private, than they aren’t worth your time. If you didn’t have a site, how would they then receive that validation? Group emails? Away messages? Huh? What? Please. I think what happens off the net means more than what happens on it. You should question your own insecurities if that matters to you.

Another thing. Just because someone claims to be a friend and gives their opinions and sides with you when you’re bitching and moaning, that does not mean they’re right. How pathetic are you to be affected by what someone thinks of your life based on a blog. Lastly, a relationship is between two people (unless you’re Akon), so STFU about it. Stop bitching to your fake friends and try talking to the person you claim to love. And maybe do that BEFORE, not AFTER.